Susah senang bersama

I went to the mall today to get some stuff with my cousin. Suddenly, I saw this couple, cute and loving couple, probably their age around 25 something was standing nearby the perfume area. Oh yeah, seems that they are not local because I heard the way they talked tak macam orang utara pun :) I think the couple wanted to get a new perfume for them I guess. Then I heard their coversation (tak sengaja ok)
It goes like this:

The guy: Baby, perfume ni la yang I nak beli since that day. But I didn't have enough money la. Bulan ni I agak kesempitan duit sikit la since I
spent a lot for my car last month.

The lady: See, syg kan I da cakap dengan u. Handle smart with your money.
Erm..takpela. I pun ada duit lebih. I beli untuk u dulu ok. Later bila
u da ada duit, then u buy something special for me ok syg?

The guy: Erm..ok. Eh takpe ke? Since u da spent a lot for our vacation, ni u
nak belikan perfume untuk I plak.

The lady:Takpe lah syg. Its ok. Kite susah senang sama-sama kan?

Then, couple tu went straight to the cashier to pay the perfume. It was a very quick moment actually. But very deep to me..coz suddenly I was thinking about someone..My best friend. His gf left him because he can't paid for the expensive food and buy things for her. Of coz, he's still studying, what do u expect right? His gf (ex-gf) said that she didn't want to live poor with him. Dia tak biasa hidup susah katanya. I was mad when he told me that story.

I mean, come on. How mean she is. If I were that girl, I would say that I would never leave him when he's in trouble, got no money. Of coz, some issue will comeout later. But if you love the person, u'll always be with the person through good and bad time isn't it? Have faith to the person that things will change and do something about our life. Not just doing nothing. I'm so sad when it comes about this because it used happened to me once. So that's why when I saw the couple, I was suddenly smiling and said to myself in my heart ''It will b good if the couple stay together until they get marry. Sebab bukan senang nak cari someone yang boleh ada dengan kita through bad time especially. Honestly, Im speaking frankly that most of the girls nowadays memang pandang sume tu, money, status even fame. Eventhough that I'm a lady, I agreed with that. To me, cukuplah kalau dia boleh jaga kite dengan baik and be a good husband or a dad to the children, raise them well and cukup education semua. But that doesnt mean yang lelaki boleh terima takdir just like that and do nothing. If u love the person that had been sacrified a lot for you then do something about it. Change your life of course.. Jangan sia-siakan pengorbanan perempuan yang banyak berkorban untuk kita. Susah sama-sama, then bila senang janganlah kita lupakan orang yang penah susah sama-sama dengan kita dulu. same goes to the lady. Hidup tak perlu jadi kejam. Tak perlu jadi selfish. Free your heart. Treat people like it should..even somebody had made mistake to u, forgiveness is the most important thing. If they said they'll change, trust them. Jangan ada prasangka buruk. Find the good solution and the best way to fix something. To change it.

PS:// In sudden, I am thinking about someone, a friend of mine. He used to said this to me ''I nak cari someone yang bukan pandang duit I, bukan pandang nama I. Tapi sayang I sepenuh hati dia.'' Ermmm, dia da jumpa someone tu. but someone tu dah hilang larikan diri. Only God knows why. Well I wish him good luck anyway. Hope dia dapat another someone like that :)

"To find someone yg come and go mmg senang... But to find someone to be with through good and thick ... U pikir lah sendiri"